Is it all relative?

I was just thinking about the phrase, "it's all relative" when I got completely overwhelmed by infinity. I immediately turned to the dictionary in search of answers about the meaning of relative, which in turned led to some topical research into the theory of relativity. It was over my head. After all, if it's all relative then understanding relative seemed important. Turns out it's not. Relative is simply another evil trick used by TIME in order to try and create further division in what could be perfect unity. Back when I was getting totally overwhelmed by infinity I realized that if we were not able to see things in relation to other things then we would see nothing. But then I thought would it be nothing or everything? Kind of like zooming out so far that there is no longer a point of reference even though everything is contained in the image. What are you looking at? Things? Or everything?